Genesis 2:23-24 - "And Adam said: “This is now bone of my bones And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.”Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."
Read: Genesis 2:18-24
Reflection
From the very beginning, God established marriage as a sacred union, designed by Him for companionship, love, and purpose. In Genesis 2:18-24, we see that Adam did not search for his spouse—God brought Eve to him. This passage reveals a profound truth: marriage is not simply a human arrangement but a divine appointment.
God declared that it was not good for man to be alone, and He Himself provided the solution. Adam did not choose Eve based on his own preferences or desires; rather, God created her specifically for him. This demonstrates that marriage is not about finding someone based on personal criteria alone but about trusting God to bring the right person into our lives.
Many people approach relationships with a mindset of control, believing they must actively seek and choose their spouse without considering God’s guidance. While wisdom and discernment are important, the foundation of a lasting marriage is built on God’s direction. When we rely solely on our own understanding, we risk entering relationships that may not align with His plan.
The imagery of a wedding dress versus a rented suit illustrates this truth. A wedding dress is chosen with care, preserved, and treasured as a symbol of a lifelong commitment. It is not something that is worn casually or discarded after a single use. In contrast, a rented suit is worn for an occasion and then returned, used by many before it eventually wears out and is replaced.
Marriage is meant to be like the wedding dress—precious, valuable, and preserved for eternity. It is not meant to be treated like a temporary arrangement that can be discarded when difficulties arise. When God brings two people together, He establishes a covenant that is meant to endure.
Personal Application
Consider how you view marriage and relationships. Are you allowing God to lead you, or are you relying solely on your own understanding? Trusting God in this area requires surrender—acknowledging that He knows what is best and that His timing is perfect.
If you are single, pray for God’s guidance in preparing your heart for marriage. Instead of focusing on finding the right person, focus on becoming the person God has called you to be. When the time is right, He will bring the right spouse into your life.
If you are married, reflect on how God brought you and your spouse together. Are you honoring the covenant He established? Are you seeking His wisdom in strengthening your relationship? Marriage requires intentional care, just like a wedding dress that is preserved and protected.
Additionally, consider how you can encourage others to trust God in their relationships. In a culture that often dismisses the value of marriage, believers are called to uphold God’s design. Whether through mentorship, prayer, or simply living out a faithful marriage, you can be a testimony of His plan.
Prayer
Father, Thank You for Your perfect design for marriage. You have shown us through Your word that it is not good for man to be alone, and You have established marriage as a sacred covenant. Help me to trust in Your guidance, to surrender my desires to You, and to allow You to lead me in relationships. Lord, I ask for wisdom in preparing my heart for marriage. Teach me to seek You first, to grow in faith, and to trust in Your timing. If I am already married, help me to honor the covenant You have established, to love selflessly, and to reflect Your grace in my relationship. May my life be a testimony of Your faithfulness. Help me to encourage others to trust in Your plan, to uphold the beauty of marriage, and to walk in obedience to Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Written By Sarah Fry-Leasure
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