Lessons from the Master: Ready for the Bridegroom

Read: Matthew 25:1–13

Reflection

This parable is a sobering reminder that readiness for Christ’s return is not something we can borrow, fake, or delay. All ten virgins had lamps. All were waiting. All fell asleep. But only five had the foresight to bring extra oil. The oil represents spiritual preparedness—faith, obedience, intimacy with Christ, and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. The wise virgins weren’t perfect, but they were prepared. They had cultivated a life that could endure the wait.

The foolish virgins weren’t evil or rebellious. They simply didn’t plan ahead. They assumed they’d have time later. They thought proximity to the others would be enough. But when the moment came, they were empty. And the door was shut.

Jesus isn’t warning us about sleep—He’s warning us about spiritual neglect. The delay of the bridegroom is mercy, giving us time to prepare. But the midnight cry will come. And when it does, we won’t have time to borrow someone else’s devotion, character, or relationship with God. We must have our own oil.

Personal Application

This parable invites us to examine our spiritual reserves together. Are we living with oil in our lamps? Are we cultivating a daily relationship with Jesus, or are we relying on past experiences, borrowed faith, or surface-level religion? 

Oil takes time to gather. It’s built through our prayers, time in scripture, repentance, worship, and obedience. It’s the fruit of intimacy with God. And it’s not transferable. No one can give us their oil—not our pastor, our spouse, our parents, or our friends. We must seek it ourselves. 

There are seasons when the wait feels long. We grow weary. We fall asleep. But the wise among us wake up ready. Our lamps are trimmed. Our hearts are full. We’ve lived in expectation, not just belief. 

This parable isn’t meant to scare us—it’s meant to stir us. Jesus longs for us to be with Him. He’s not looking for perfection; He’s looking for preparation. The door is open now. The oil is available. But the time to gather it is today. 

Thought-Provoking Questions

1. What does “oil in your lamp” look like in your life right now? Are you spiritually prepared for Christ’s return?
2. Are there areas where you’ve been relying on someone else’s faith or spiritual discipline instead of cultivating your own?
3. What habits or distractions are keeping you from gathering oil daily?
4. If Jesus returned tonight, would you be ready—or would you be scrambling to find what you’ve neglected?

Prayer

Lord Jesus, thank You for Your mercy and patience. Forgive me for spiritual complacency and help me to seek You daily with readiness and obedience. Fill me with Your Spirit so I am prepared—not only waiting but truly ready. May my life reflect Your presence, ignite passion for You, and find joy when called upon. Amen.